What happened to weeks 5 and 6 and 7? sigh. I don't know. One little African who continues to topple my world upside down then right side up then sideways then all pretty and (seemingly) perfect again. But, if I'm being honest, it's not perfect. Seriously though, perfect is terribly overrated, especially for us natural, homeschooling, attachment parenting, adoptive, wish-I-had-a-homestead sort of moms. James has stretched our family in unimaginable ways. Stretched in ways that eight weeks ago I'm sure would have made me crumble. There are days, like today, that I was fairly certain I will not survive. Can not survive. Do not want to survive another day like today. Adoption is hard. Adoption is beautiful. Adoption is blessed. Adoption is painful in eleventy-billions layered ways. It's like childbirth. Ouch. Holy heck that hurt for those endless hours. Wait, hurt? What hurt? I'm clinging to the light at the end of the tunnel, and as my dear friend has said to me before along our adoption journey together, sometimes it's very dim and I'd settle for a third of the way down the tunnel. That said, the last three weeks have been brimming with new school lessons, ridiculously wonderful new materials, visits from family, James's first toes-in-cold-Atlantic beachy sand in the big wide ocean, insane temper tantrums and grief, strep throat times six, including one little Ethiopian who cannot say (still working on good ol English) that he is nauseous but it becomes very clear very fast in very bad ways always in public, and the quiet at the end of the day with my husband and two bowls of cereal thankful that we are still snuggling on the couch together ... 20 beautifully blurry years later ~ gosh it goes fast.
We are in week 8 of our lessons and I can say that we have
found our niche.
Stumbled maybe, or more accurately
gave up control and sat still enough to listen to what God was pressing on my heart. All along.
SCM's Genesis through Deuteronomy and Ancient Egypt is perfect for us. Just the right fit. I am shouting this from the rooftops. Finally. Peace. No more up-all-night scouring curricula and wasting precious money on materials that never work like I want them to or like I think they should. This does. All of it. Wow. It surely helps that Mae and Viola absolutely crave Bible time and illustrating Bible stories and timelining history. Throw in Ancient Egypt to uncover what life may have been like for say, Abraham, and pure success. Short, varied lessons, living books, read-alouds, narration, and lots of one-on-one with my girls and we have success and happy lessons.
Oh, I did buy Mae a new
Bible in the same translation as my preferred reading Bible (ESV) and she really loves it. We had her initials monogrammed, too. She was ready for more substance than her Discoverer's Bible and we prefer a translation that is word-for-word over the NIV we had been using with Mae. Her 8th birthday is in three weeks ... I am terrible at saving presents!
I read Ganz's
Herein is Love: Genesis and absolutely adored it. It is a commentary for children, but perfect for me, who has just so much to learn. I am definitely going to be reading her series as we read through the Bible. Sparks gorgeous discussion.
Viola lost her FIRST TOOTH! She's 5 1/2 and this was such a rite-of-passage for her after witnessing her sis lose seemingly all of her teeth. She was thrilled to find $5 under pillow and this mama took her and the others to the dollar bins at Target ... $20 later the tooth fairy had made a new friend (well, four actually).
The necessaries are moving along wonderfully ... reading, handwriting, and math. We will begin next week with adding Life of Fred: Apples from their Elementary series two days a week to spice things up and to make their minds work in an entirely different way when approaching math ... it's also going to be a unique way to bridge family learning and math. I have wanted to use LoF for years, but until this year it was only Fractions on up, so this is a special treat. Viola breezes through her math lessons, though we love Math Lessons for a Living Education, so we will use the additional math a couple times a week and still enjoy her math core. Mae's Math Mammoth is exactly what she needs, but it is quite worksheet-y, so some LoF will surely break up the routine nicely.
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| This is what a sick day at home school looks like. :( |
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| Even the 2-year-old loves book basket! |
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| Queen Language Lessons ... just the right amount for Viola. |
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| Cheerful Cursive with Mae ... most delight in her day, aside from Map Skills. Silly girl. |
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Up until this week we were using
106 Days of Creation for science and nature. It is a lovely program and ties in with our study of creation seamlessly. Life is somewhat a cluster at present so I reread my Charlotte Mason Companion as well as Pocketful of Pinecones and again, we're taking a step back and focusing on nature. We will pick up 106 again in the fall, but we have changed course to Queen's Discovering Nature Series with All Nature Sings. From Queen's website: "It is a year long study of forest plants and animals, dinosaurs, the days of creation, and Noah's ark, etc."
Our most recent lesson with 106 was on shadows and we had a fantastic time studying God's wonderful works through scripture and nature. First, we were greeted by turkeys ... if it's not turkeys, it's deer or moose. Then the girls took turns tracing each other's shadows several times that day. Our discovery: shadows shift with light and sometimes objects get in the way. We then turned our attention to our Bibles and learned that God never changes. He is constant and everlasting. We discussed our lesson and then the girls notebooked their findings. I am eager to turn back to this guide on science and nature next year when I hope that all four kids might participate a little more fully. Until then ...
I'll close with Mae's favorite part of school ~ her Map Skills B workbook. She just has that knack and spatial perception (that I lack). Here she is mapping her room. Love this girl so much.
Peace.
I've been perusing your blog for over an hour, lol. I saw where you WERE using PLL and then EFTTC, but now the sidebar says QLL. Did you decide you didn't like EFTTC either?
ReplyDeleteWhat all are you using exactly now? What it says on the side? What about the "Classical Writing" you had mentioned?
What math program did you use last year that you felt was lacking?
LOVE your sweet little family. That precious Jude makes my heart melt each time I see his picture. We can't even afford the four of us at the moment, but if we can ever get on better ground financially, I would love to adopt one day.
Many blessings!
Melissa
www.irienarrowpath.blogspot.com
Thanks so much, Melissa. You too have a sweet family ~ gorgeous girls! I know ... I am fickle when it comes to curriculum. I am not shy about shelving what isn't working and trying new materials to find what my gut says is the best at that time for my kids. :) We started with PLL at the recommendation of MFW. I liked it well enough, but I wanted something with a more modern sensibility, yet still CM. EFTTC definitely fills that niche. It's lovely. With our recent adoption and four small children I am finding that some things get set aside too frequently, like picture study. Thus, I am giving Queen's LL a whirl with Mae, my oldest, to see if I can bring in several picture studies between her QLL and Viola's (using LLLO3). I guess I am trying to combine a little more and I find Queen to be more beautiful than EFTTC, and I'm a sucker for lovely. I really respect that aspect of CM. We used Singapore last year and I know many love it, we did not. I am very, very happy with Math Mammoth and super excited to add in LoF. :) Super happy about it. Viola is using MLFLE and I think it is wonderful, though below her. That's okay though ... I don't want to miss any foundations in math, especially. Again, that plus LoF will be dreamy for the girls (and me). I was using CW but found it too direct in it's instruction of grammar, though the nature studies and copywork are spot on, so I do dip into it for that here and there (just the Primers ... not the actual writing program). I hope that helps a little. :) Feel free to ask away. I've learned the most by asking and asking and asking (and trying and trying and trying). Blessings!
ReplyDeleteErin, I wouldn't change a thing! It looks like you all have found a great joy in your school life. :o)
ReplyDeleteThank you, Cindie. :) I wish it was more enchanted, if that makes sense, for the girls especially. I talked with OM today for an hour and they had awesome thoughts on combining, but maybe I need to leave well enough alone ... why fix what isn't broken? I'm terrible about that very thing! I'll email you more. xo
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ReplyDeleteTake it from someone who KNOWS (I mean FOR REAL), don't change if it is working! I've been ALL OVER THE MAP and ended up nowhere! If you THINK you want OM but you like the Charlotte Mason ideas of Living Books for history and you like the CM idea of copying well-written literature and you like the CM idea of copywork rather than written narration in 2nd grade, you won't like OM. I know. I have it. :) I like the IDEA of it, but I prefer the CM ideas I just mentioned. If you want to "enchant" more, try to find ways to add that to what you are already doing. It appears to me that you ARE doing that ~ drawing the history & Bible lessons with those Waldorf materials. See if you can fit in baking or letting your older daughter make snack (if she wants to) for everyone. Try to take a walk. Maybe paint a lesson instead of drawing it once in a while to change it up. You can try to be creative with what you have, but please don't feel like you're not doing enough! I LOVE the looks of what you're doing! Another idea (and I haven't had the money yet, so this is not from experience, just something I've been pondering for a while) ... have you looked at Little Acorn Learning? I've considered adding their enrichment guide to my stuff. Just so I could follow the seasons and have an idea right there for a craft and a recipe to make each week. But NOT to feel like I had to do it all ON TOP of my other stuff, kwim?
I'd love to talk to you off-blog sometime. Maybe by email? So funny you email with Cindie ... so do I LOL
Many blessings on your journey. I'm pondering a blog post based on your questions over at my blog. When I can get to it. :)
Love and Light
Melissa
Inspired by you ...
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I am excited to read your new post, Melissa. :) I LOVE Little Acorn Learning. Wow. This is exactly exactly what I was looking for from OM, but now I can keep my beloved CM-inspired homeschool while still incorporating some of the organic Waldorf-inspired joys. I can't thank you enough. I just ordered the December 3-day program guide ... I like this sample much more than the enrichment guide. I will also likely order the menu to spice up our days, too. Thank you! And, with regard to our curriculum, yes, you are spot on. I LOVE SCM. We got back on track today after so much illness and gosh was it good to be back! It is so simple and sweet and just exactly what I long for in a CM-education. That plus the LAL extras to add rhythm and nature more organically to our everyday, I'm a happy girl! Off to read your blog ...
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